Life feels… fine. But something keeps tugging.

You don’t need another to-do. You need to un-do.

The UnDoing is a weekly letter from your future — dispatches written from the peace and wisdom of the Crone.

Say no to “fine.” Say yes to freedom.

Receive The UnDoing each week

Not to add to your doing, but to loosen, unravel, and lay down the weights you’ve carried too long.

What you’ll get:

Tales from inside the knots that must loosen so we can breathe again.

A guide to what unravels so we can see what’s waiting next.

Lived truths about what asks to be unlearned — so we can re-member what was always ours.

Not Another Self-Help List

What if the tug you feel isn’t asking you to do more — it’s asking you to un-do? These weekly letters aren’t about striving. They are steady, short, and human — written to help you loosen, unravel, and breathe again.

  • Has a life that looks “fine” but feels like she’s disappearing inside it

  • Knows there’s truth under the roles — she just can’t find the thread

  • Wants softness without losing her strength (spoiler: softness is strength)

For the Woman Who…

About Melanie

👋 Hi, I’m Melanie.

I don’t just teach this work — I’ve lived it. I’ve worn the masks, played the parts, endured the unraveling of it all — and now I tend a steady light so you can glimpse your own way forward.

Each week I write from five decades of inner work, trail-tested honesty, and Crone wisdom.

What to Expect

  • One letter each week (5–7 minute read)

  • A gentle un-doing prompt you can try in under 2 minutes

  • The occasional invitation to go deeper (open circles, gatherings, courses)

Awakening isn’t a straight line. It’s a spiraling, sacred return.

Let this series be your companion as you walk forward—with presence, power, and grace.