A 2-part live workshop for women who are tired of the back and forth, and want to hear their own voice clearly again.
$99 USD • Live on Zoom
Two 2-hour sessions, one week apart
Includes a companion guide
Thursday, February 4th and Thursday, February 11th, 2027 • 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm Pacific (Vancouver time)
You are trying to land. Trying to know what is true. Trying to trust yourself.
One moment something feels clear. The next, you’re unsure again. You think it through, talk yourself into one direction, then question it all over again.
You replay conversations. You wait for the answer to arrive. You tell yourself that if you just give it a little more time, something will settle.
But it doesn’t.
Maybe this is what it looks like for you:
You’re trying to decide whether something in your marriage or relationship is truly workable, or whether you’ve been explaining away what isn’t sitting right.
Your life has changed. The children are grown. Work has ended, or is ending. And you can’t tell what you actually want now.
You want to speak honestly about something important, but each time you get close, doubt takes over and you pull back.
Part of you longs for something new, a move, a creative project, a different way of living, and another part says it’s foolish, selfish, or too late.
You’ve gone over the same decision so many times that you no longer trust any conclusion you reach.
It’s not only that you don’t know what to do. It’s that you no longer know which voice inside you to trust.
What you really want.
You don’t want someone else to tell you what to do. You want the answer to come from you.
You want to hear yourself clearly, and trust what you hear.
You want to tell the difference between fear and wisdom, between your own voice and the ones you learned long ago.
You want the back and forth to quiet, so you can finally land, and take a step with some steadiness.
Why this is so hard.
The back and forth isn’t the problem. It’s a symptom.
The real problem is that too many voices inside you are speaking at once. And each one pulls you in a different direction.
You may recognise some of them:
The Protector wants to keep you safe, no matter the price you pay.
The Rebel wants out, now, and doesn’t think about the consequences.
The Understanding One sees everyone’s side, and is always trying to stop the Selfish One.
The Selfish One wants something just for you, and gets shamed for it every time she speaks.
The Hanger-On is afraid of change, and clings to what’s familiar, even when it no longer fits.
The Pleaser asks what everyone else needs before you’ve asked yourself.
The Critic tells you you’re foolish, too much, or too old to want more.
The Dreamer quietly remembers who you were meant to be, and won’t stop longing.
Each of these voices formed for a reason. Each one believes it’s helping you. And when they all speak at once, of course you can’t tell which one to trust.
Beneath all of them is your own voice. Quieter. Steadier. Often drowned out. That’s the one we’re here to find.
Why thinking harder hasn’t helped.
You’re thoughtful and self-aware. So you’ve tried to think your way through. Weighed the pros and cons. Talked it over with friends. Waited for certainty.
But you can’t think your way out of a tangle that wasn’t made by thinking. These voices formed long ago, in your body, in your family, in the roles you learned to play. More analysis only adds another voice to the noise. Asking others adds theirs too.
The way through isn’t more thinking. It’s untangling.
What happens if nothing changes.
The loop keeps going. Months become years. The decision gets made by default, or not at all. And each time, you trust yourself a little less.
You don’t have to keep living in the back and forth.
What we’ll move through together.
Session 1: Seeing the tangle.
We look at why this kind of confusion is so persistent, and what’s happening beneath the back and forth. You’ll begin to recognise the inner voices pulling you in different directions, where they came from, and what each one is trying to protect.
Session 2: Finding your own voice.
We go deeper. You’ll learn a clearer way to tell your own voice apart from the ones you inherited, one that comes through your body and inner knowing, not more analysis. You’ll leave with one grounded, honest next step.
This isn’t about solving your whole life in two weeks. It’s about untangling enough to begin moving differently.
YOUR COMPANION GUIDE
Alongside the two live sessions, you’ll receive a companion guide of journaling prompts. Thoughtful questions designed to take you beneath the tangle, past the noise of the competing voices, and closer to your own truth.
The guide opens on the day of our first session and stays available for a week after our last, so you have time to sit with what’s rising.
What you’ll leave with.
A clear understanding of why you feel so conflicted, and why it’s been so hard to land.
The ability to recognise the voices pulling at you, and to tell them apart from your own.
A simple way to check in with your own inner knowing.
One grounded next step you can take with more steadiness and less inner struggle.
A companion guide of journaling prompts to keep untangling between and after our sessions.
This workshop is for you if…
You’re stuck in a decision or inner conflict that never seems to settle.
You go back and forth and genuinely don’t know what to trust.
You don’t want someone else to tell you what to do, but you can’t seem to find your own answer.
You sense that beliefs, conditioning, or old roles are involved, but can’t sort through them on your own.
This may not be the right fit if...
You want someone to give you the answer. You’re looking for inspiration without reflection. Or you already know your truth and are struggling to act on it. One Step to Truth may be a better fit for that.
If you are in immediate crisis and need deeper support, 1:1 personal counselling may be the better place to begin.
What Women Say
About Melanie
I’ve spent decades walking beside women through exactly this kind of inner conflict. The place where something no longer feels right, but clarity won’t come, and the back and forth has become a way of living.
With more than 25 years as a counsellor and decades of study in deep inner work, embodiment, and subconscious patterning, I bring both grounded experience and intuitive depth to this process.
But more than any credential, I know this territory from the inside. I know what it is to lose trust in your own knowing. To hear too many voices at once and not know which one is true.
My work is not about telling you what to do. It’s about helping you understand what’s happening inside you, and how to begin hearing your own voice clearly again.